Continuing tidbits from Facing Infertility A Catholic Approach -
God created Adam and Eve for one another. God established marriage as a "communion of life and love by which a man and a woman share with one another a sincere gift of self." p.35
"In the loving act where the two become one flesh, men and women reflect the very image of God." p. 35 God created our bodies to be a gift to be freely given.A husband makes himself a gift to his wife and a wife maker herself a gift for her husband.
The Catholic faith teaches that sex is designed for two purposes: to bring husband and wife together in an intimate union of persons that strengthens their mutual love for one another (unitive) and to cooperate with God in bringing forth new life (procreative). Christopher West has a great book if you are interested in learning more about this: Good News About Sex and Marriage. Unfortunately, many Catholics were not taught these purposes of marriage. Society has skewed the view of children being a "right" that everyone should have if they want it.
Jean, the author, goes on to share some moral guidelines to the treatment of infertility and the struggles that occur as a result.
Please consider reading this book for your own knowledge and to help those you know dealing with infertility.
Till next time . . .
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Friday, August 16, 2013
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Great new read
It has been quite a while since I posted last. Why you ask? I was substitute teaching for a teacher friend who had a baby 5 weeks early! You can imagine the panic as I had a day to get things in order so that I could teach full time for 8 weeks. Then summer hit and many things happened that were unanticipated. Needless to say I am back working as the Domestic Outreach Coordinator for Nightlight Christian Adoptions. My goal is to help unite prospective adoptive couples and birthmothers. All the prospective adoptive couples that I am working with are homestudy approved and working with Nightlight. Please help me spread the word.
I am new to blogging and wanted to reach out to those who may be struggling with having children for whatever reason. My husband and I have adopted three children domestically and that experience has inspired me to want to reach out to others.
I recently heard an author of a new book that I must share. I encourage you to pass this book title along. It is wonderful. It is called Facing Infertility A Catholic Approach by Jean Dimech-Juchniewicz. Everyone facing or dealing with infertility would appreciate what she writes regardless of whether they are Catholic. I am Catholic and for me this book was fabulous to not only share the emotions that occur but also the moral dilemmas that Catholics are faced with as they yearn for a child but also want to do what God teaches. I'd like to start sharing parts of the book in my blog and hope to inspire you to read it or give it to a friend going through infertility.
http://www.facebook.com/FacingInfertilityACatholicApproach
The author, Jean, has been through Infertility, Natural Childbirth, and Adoption so she has a unique viewpoint on all the emotions throughout this journey for her family. She, too, was inspired to share with others. She didn't think it would end up in a book but God continued to speak to her to share her experience and from that a book was born.
I will start with the quote from the Introduction as it sets the tone.
Blessed are those who trust in the Lord,
whose trust is the Lord.
They shall be like a tree planted by water,
sending out its roots by the stream.
It shall not fear when heat comes,
and its leaves shall stay green;
in the year of drought it is not anxious,
and it does not cease to bear fruit.
-Jeremiah 17:7-8
I will continue to add more soon. Remember, we are all God's children and we can make a difference in helping others!
I am new to blogging and wanted to reach out to those who may be struggling with having children for whatever reason. My husband and I have adopted three children domestically and that experience has inspired me to want to reach out to others.
I recently heard an author of a new book that I must share. I encourage you to pass this book title along. It is wonderful. It is called Facing Infertility A Catholic Approach by Jean Dimech-Juchniewicz. Everyone facing or dealing with infertility would appreciate what she writes regardless of whether they are Catholic. I am Catholic and for me this book was fabulous to not only share the emotions that occur but also the moral dilemmas that Catholics are faced with as they yearn for a child but also want to do what God teaches. I'd like to start sharing parts of the book in my blog and hope to inspire you to read it or give it to a friend going through infertility.
http://www.facebook.com/FacingInfertilityACatholicApproach
The author, Jean, has been through Infertility, Natural Childbirth, and Adoption so she has a unique viewpoint on all the emotions throughout this journey for her family. She, too, was inspired to share with others. She didn't think it would end up in a book but God continued to speak to her to share her experience and from that a book was born.
I will start with the quote from the Introduction as it sets the tone.
Blessed are those who trust in the Lord,
whose trust is the Lord.
They shall be like a tree planted by water,
sending out its roots by the stream.
It shall not fear when heat comes,
and its leaves shall stay green;
in the year of drought it is not anxious,
and it does not cease to bear fruit.
-Jeremiah 17:7-8
I will continue to add more soon. Remember, we are all God's children and we can make a difference in helping others!
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
Adoption is such a rewarding gift.
Today as I have been communicating with prospective adoptive mothers I am reminded of what a great gift adoption is. These couples have longed for a child to add to their families and for whatever the circumstance have chosen to do so through adoption. For some the wait has been quite long. What kept them going? The faith that God was going to carry them through this rough time and bring them the ultimate joy!
I hope there are birth parents out there that will read this and see that indeed the choice of adoption is such a gift. For you it is a heart wrenching decision. You love your child more than your own life. It is because of that love that you have chosen to make an adoption plan. It is also unbearable to think about the day you give birth and then have to see that child leave. I can not begin to imagine that pain. I hope somewhere in there there is also joy because you know you have worked so hard to find the "perfect family" for your child. If you can not parent the child then you want the best alternative.
As I have mentioned my husband and I have adopted three times and each time was quite different. We were fortunate enough to meet each of the birthmothers and are so grateful for that time. We also talked on the phone with her in the weeks prior to the births. That gave comfort to all of us. Perhaps having a semi-open or open adoption will also give you some comfort. You can communicate with the adoptive parents, develop a relationship with them, and maybe at some point meet them and your child. You can do what is best for you.
Please share your thoughts, worries, concerns here. I would love to be your sounding board or perhaps refer you to some places for more resources. One great place is www.creatingafamily.org. They have great free podcasts on all facets of adoption. Even though I adopted myself I learned some things too!
May we grow together on this journey . . .
You can contact me at elizabeth @nightlight.org or call (864) 567-5614.
I hope there are birth parents out there that will read this and see that indeed the choice of adoption is such a gift. For you it is a heart wrenching decision. You love your child more than your own life. It is because of that love that you have chosen to make an adoption plan. It is also unbearable to think about the day you give birth and then have to see that child leave. I can not begin to imagine that pain. I hope somewhere in there there is also joy because you know you have worked so hard to find the "perfect family" for your child. If you can not parent the child then you want the best alternative.
As I have mentioned my husband and I have adopted three times and each time was quite different. We were fortunate enough to meet each of the birthmothers and are so grateful for that time. We also talked on the phone with her in the weeks prior to the births. That gave comfort to all of us. Perhaps having a semi-open or open adoption will also give you some comfort. You can communicate with the adoptive parents, develop a relationship with them, and maybe at some point meet them and your child. You can do what is best for you.
Please share your thoughts, worries, concerns here. I would love to be your sounding board or perhaps refer you to some places for more resources. One great place is www.creatingafamily.org. They have great free podcasts on all facets of adoption. Even though I adopted myself I learned some things too!
May we grow together on this journey . . .
You can contact me at elizabeth @nightlight.org or call (864) 567-5614.
Monday, April 1, 2013
What an honor!
What an honor to be contacted by a birthmother herself thanking me for my work. It brought tears to my eyes. She shared her story with me and gave me permission to share it with you as well. It seems in years past there wasn't as much support for birthmothers and adoption as a whole. I hope we can continue to change the perception of that. Adoption is such a gift. The birthmother or birthparents are choosing a family for their child out of complete unconditional love. Please read this and share with others. Perhaps others will be touched by this as well and share their stories so we can support them with our words and prayers.
Here is Daniella's story:
http://moss-place.stblogs.org/archives/2006/06/time-to-tell-a.html
http://moss-place.stblogs.org/archives/2006/06/time-to-tell-a-1.html
As always you can contact me at elizabeth@nightlight.org or reach me on Facebook at Nightlight Christian Adoptions.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Nightlight-Christian-Adoption/108986062455792?ref=hl
Here is Daniella's story:
http://moss-place.stblogs.org/archives/2006/06/time-to-tell-a.html
http://moss-place.stblogs.org/archives/2006/06/time-to-tell-a-1.html
As always you can contact me at elizabeth@nightlight.org or reach me on Facebook at Nightlight Christian Adoptions.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Nightlight-Christian-Adoption/108986062455792?ref=hl
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
Helping each other
As I sit here today I am thinking about how so many of us have situations that pop up that we didn't expect. Today I was substitute teaching and these darlings showed me something I wasn't expecting. One child hurt another child's feelings making him cry. I talked with the one who did the hurting and helped him to see that what he did was not respectful to his friend. I did ask him to apologize for hurting his friend. What happened next was touching to watch. The hurt friend had many of his friends come over to check on him our of sheer compassion. They didn't want to see their friend hurt. What a great lesson!
Today let's help each other. If you know of someone hurting would you consider reaching out? As I already mentioned I am also working in the field of adoption. Perhaps you know of someone either dealing with infertility, or an unexpected pregnancy. Consider reaching out to them today. Yes adoption is always a great option. Education is key. I would love to also help educate your friends on various aspects of adoption from both the birthmother and adoptive parents point of view. There are so many things to learn about and consider but it is worth every minute so that you can make an informed decision. I would like to help support you too if you'd like. Feel free to contact me at elizabeth@nightlight.org.
Let's all share some stories of how we helped people today.
Today let's help each other. If you know of someone hurting would you consider reaching out? As I already mentioned I am also working in the field of adoption. Perhaps you know of someone either dealing with infertility, or an unexpected pregnancy. Consider reaching out to them today. Yes adoption is always a great option. Education is key. I would love to also help educate your friends on various aspects of adoption from both the birthmother and adoptive parents point of view. There are so many things to learn about and consider but it is worth every minute so that you can make an informed decision. I would like to help support you too if you'd like. Feel free to contact me at elizabeth@nightlight.org.
Let's all share some stories of how we helped people today.
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Thank you to all women choosing life!
I have spent the last several hours being inspired by so many women who have chosen life and made adoption plans for themselves! Thank you! When my husband and I went through our journey of adoption we prayed for our birthmothers every day and continue to do so. I was so touched by the entire experience that I have now begun a new chapter in my life working in the adoption field. I would love to be a support to birthmothers. Those conversations I had with our children's birthmothers were pricesless. Being supportive and just listening to their joys and struggles at times was priceless. If you have been touched by a birthmother I'd love to hear your comments. If you have been or are currently a birthmother I'd love to hear your joys and struggles. Wouldn't it be great to continue the conversation with someone?
I am now working as a Domestic Outreach Coordinator for Nightlight Christian Adoptions. I would love to be able to connect you with someone to see if making an adoption plan is right for you. If it is, I would love to cheer you on while you select a family to love your child unconditionally. I would love to also support the adoptive couples who yearn for a family or to expand their family. I remember so distinctly the utter joy in receiving that phone call that we had been selected by a birthmother. Yes I am passionate about adoption and would like to reach out to those of you considering placing your child or those who have placed in the past. Join me in this next chapter.
I am now working as a Domestic Outreach Coordinator for Nightlight Christian Adoptions. I would love to be able to connect you with someone to see if making an adoption plan is right for you. If it is, I would love to cheer you on while you select a family to love your child unconditionally. I would love to also support the adoptive couples who yearn for a family or to expand their family. I remember so distinctly the utter joy in receiving that phone call that we had been selected by a birthmother. Yes I am passionate about adoption and would like to reach out to those of you considering placing your child or those who have placed in the past. Join me in this next chapter.
Friday, March 22, 2013
The Ultimate Gift
Welcome
to the Ultimate Gift Blog. This is my first post and I am excited to
begin this conversation. My name is Elizabeth and I am an adoptive
mother of 3. My husband and I have been so blessed by 3 incredible birthmothers. Their choice of an adoption plan truly was the ultimate gift! Due to their selfless gifts we have an incredible family.
What an incredible choice birthmothers must make. Their love for their baby is unconditional and they want nothing but the best possible family for their child. Whether you are a birthmother in the past or the present I hope you will join us in this conversation sharing your thought about this ultimate gift. What a great opportunity to support each other in these experiences.
Because of these life changing experiences I have chosen to get involved in adoption field and have recently begun working as the Domestic Adoption Outreach Coordinator for Nightlight Christian Adoptions. If you or someone you know is a birthmother wanting to discuss making an adoption plan please don't hesitate to contact me at elizabeth@nightlight.org. On behalf of all adoptive couples everywhere, thank you!
What an incredible choice birthmothers must make. Their love for their baby is unconditional and they want nothing but the best possible family for their child. Whether you are a birthmother in the past or the present I hope you will join us in this conversation sharing your thought about this ultimate gift. What a great opportunity to support each other in these experiences.
Because of these life changing experiences I have chosen to get involved in adoption field and have recently begun working as the Domestic Adoption Outreach Coordinator for Nightlight Christian Adoptions. If you or someone you know is a birthmother wanting to discuss making an adoption plan please don't hesitate to contact me at elizabeth@nightlight.org. On behalf of all adoptive couples everywhere, thank you!
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